Parrygib is something that happens to warriors. Put it out of your mind.
People aren't taking 1H spec instead of reckoning. They're taking combat expertise instead of reckoning. Back when it was weapon expertise the cookie cutter 0/49/12 included both reckoning and 1h spec.
There's simply not enough points for all the good talents. Reckoning is also a proc and many feel that, in tanking, it should not be that paladins rely on chance. Also, as your dodge/parry/miss goes up it will proc less often. Reckoning is a great talent but we don't have 66 talent points to spend and must prioritise.
However, because of posts on this forum, reckoning is making a comeback. People are even looking at cutting talents like BoK, imp judgment, spell warding and anticipation to get 3/5 reckoning.
IMO if you can comfortably fit both, get both.
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