pre 60 these should be the goals imho(it's what worked for me and never had probs) :
weapon : the fastest weapon the better and with as much stamina as possible, anyother stats are non factor
armor pieces except cloak : armor and stamina(leave out shields with avoidance and replace em with armor stamina ones)
jewelery and cloak : spell dmg and stamina where you can, intellect should be np.
- u would most of the times feel that trash is harder than bosses beeing that 99% are just tanknspank
- paramount imho : either get friends with a DPS class to lvl/aoe/quest with(mage/lock are the best) and add friends any healer u can find that lvls in instances and have the spec and gear to be a real healer.
- there is no such thing as "things impossible for pally", lvld prot from lvl 1 and tanked every instance up to Strat and Scholo, if fury warrior with duals and retridins with 2h can tank em, for you, that are specced and geared especially for tanking, all instances will be easy mode.
PS: just to get an idea on how easy mode Pre-TBC instaces are now i'll tell u as story, on my previous char that was a healer since lvl 1 i knew a guy, a prot warrior, and he was a roleplayer, he was roleplaying Leonidas(king of spartans, 300, etc.) and to make a realistic roleplay he was tanking in shorts(some cloth pants or mail i believe) w/o any chest no gloves, just helm, bracers boots and belt, and always a round shield, he had more survuvability than fury warriors at his lvl that were wearing plate at 40 lvl, as he was just litterally dragging us trough ZF.
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