It is VERY easy to solo Dimensius for Dabiri's Enigma, you just have to think about how to do it.
Wear spell gear and stand in the doorway DO NOT GO IN. Heal the ethereal for as long as you can, tossing exorcism when you can. This will be harder for you because you are a Human, and don't have Arcane Torrent. Once the guy is dead, stand there and exorcism and Avengers Shield. You have divine plea, use it. Save Lay on hand until you are close to death and a shadow volley is INCOMING. Lay on Hands before it gets to you. Continue to kill him. It took me 30 minutes to kill him pre-wotlk.
For tanking, find a tailor and have them make you a Cloak of Eternity. Lots of Stam and extra Defense. This will last you until 75 when you can get the LW crafted cloak.
For a weapon.... that's a tough one. There are no good weapons in the beginning portions of WotLK for tanking. The first one you can get is at 74. If you "must" have a tanking weapon You could do SSO dailies for a blue quality at revered, but you will lose a ton of dps doing this.
You could put together a quick raid and go smash Kara in the face. You don't have to do too many bosses to get to the chess event, and you could get ahold of a King's Defender that way. (There is DK on my server who DW tanked with a King's Defender and a Sun Eater at low levels. That guys was INSANE)
The big thing is, looking at your gear, you are at 490 defense which means you are uncrittable by anyone in the nexus or Utgarde keep.
Easier ways to stay uncrit while leveling than finding a tanking weapon would be to get the cloak I mention, and get defense on shield and cloak. TBC enchanting mats are ridiculously cheap on my server, so the cloak should be easy.
Upgrade your gear with craftables as you can, run instances and do questlines for instances as these are how you will gear as a tank. Make sure to pay attention to reps. Wyrmrest, AC, and Kirin Tor are good reps as you level.
Since you don't have exalted with Scryers or Aldor, bust your butt on Sons of Hodir rep when you get there.
_________________
Sunetra