Re: Gemming Expertise
It also depends what content you're gearing for. If you're gearing for 10 mans, you might skip Stamina gemming as a whole, and only gem Hit/Expertise/Haste. It doesn't really matter in what combination you gem it, as you can fix it with reforging. Be sure to take all socket bonuses, even practically useless socket bonuses like +crit, as gemming for a socket bonus is never a loss in this case.
If you're gearing for 25 man or 10 man HC, you'd want some stamina. Still, getting Hit and Expertise capped is important.