heh i have had this discussion many times with guild mates and fellow tanks and they are all still stuck in the stam stacking mindset.
The way I try to explain it is ... the less dmg a tank takes, the less heals he needs, it's that simple. If you have 27k unbuffed stam ... but take more dmg ... all of a sudden your healers gear becomes significant as they have to keep up with replenishing all the dmg you take. If you mitigate more of it, then your healers timing is more significant than his/her gear. Healers also have no idea how AD works for pally's ... to them if you are below 35% health you are practically dead ... they forget that most of us won't take a crit and they don't realize that for us.. that's just where the fun starts
This also helped explain to them why we had some very under geared yet extremely skillful healers keeping our first couple naxx raids alive
And yes, in WotLK there are some mechanics that completely negate your gear altogether, and put the focus on your skill. Occulus to start ... instructor razuvious anyone? widow faerlina? Heigan? Loetheb? there are many.
but even the stam stacking mentality when put to the test against one of the biggest melee dps'ing bosses in naxx, patchwerk ... the stam issue is moot for the hateful strike tank. Granted there is a minimal requirement to survive a hateful strike ... weather you have 22k hp (roughly 27k raid buffed) or 27k hp (roughly 32k raid buffed) you still aren't going to be able to survive more than one consecutive strike. But if you look at the main tank's role ..... patchwerk swings mildly hard and FAST. the more you mitigate ... the more heals that can hit the strike tank to get him back up fast before patchwerk takes our your rogue or enh shammy hehe

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It's also frustrating when in a 25 man raid ... they look at the tanks HP .. "okay ... X you have the most HP .. you're main tank."
uhhh.... okay. I've found when it comes to the MT role, it's usually done by the tank that is the GL or RL .... or they give it to whom ever has the most hp lol. Show up in your stam gear until you get the job then change lol. Orrrr you can do what I do .. and be the 3rd or 4th tank .. hanging out by the healers .. cleaning up the trash that inevitably ALWAYS get's through ..... especially when the MT thinks he can taunt the entire pull on him .... and dies. My list of healing friends has grown after bailing out raids from numerous potential wipe situations. Some times the healers appreciate a tank that can check his ego at the door, and is perfectly fine sitting and waiting to be needed

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And further more (one last vent) ... I've run VH so many times i have VH callouses on my mouse hand ... and I still have yet to even see the doggie. *sigh*
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