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Re: Relationships

Postby Arnock » Sat Nov 09, 2013 11:39 pm

Odd, competition must keep the price relatively low here, there's three or four theaters relatively equidistant from my apartment. I live in a rather wealthy area and it's not uncommon to see a Bentley or Lamborghini parked outside a couple of them.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Delphineas » Mon Nov 11, 2013 9:36 am

Anyone know if the part of the ACA law concerning pre existing conditions goes into effect Jan 1st, or if that went into effect sometime earlier this year?
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Re: Relationships

Postby Fivelives » Tue Nov 12, 2013 1:53 am

January 1st. ACA is technically in full effect right now regarding all laws, but the policies don't take effect until then so the difference is academic. You can get coverage right now, but it won't kick in until the new year.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Delphineas » Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:14 am

If it's Jan 1st, I'm likely screwed, But my coverage started in June and I might be getting denied because of a preexisting condition. Fuzzy on the whole thing. 6 months was mention too. Going to Mayo to get some medical records so I can straighten this out.

So again, can I be denied for a preexisting condition before Jan 1st?
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Re: Relationships

Postby Fivelives » Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:18 pm

You can't be denied coverage, no. However, the coverage that you do get won't take effect until January 1st.

If you signed up for insurance back in June, you should've gotten something in the mail from your insurance company letting you know what your policy's effective date is. That's the date that your coverage goes into effect. If you're still having issues, then call your insurance company and ask them.

Hope that's clearer for you.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Snake-Aes » Wed Nov 20, 2013 7:08 pm

Exercising for a change produces funny results. Random Chick hit on me today by comparing me to the Technoviking.
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Re: Relationships

Postby katraya » Wed Nov 27, 2013 7:27 am

If anyone else who quit playing was thinking of coming back, MoP is only $10 now. I got it last night. Now I just need to get my husband out of the house so I have time to play!
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Re: Relationships

Postby bldavis » Wed Nov 27, 2013 8:54 am

katraya wrote:If anyone else who quit playing was thinking of coming back, MoP is only $10 now. I got it last night. Now I just need to get my husband out of the house so I have time to play!

:lol: :lol:

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Re: Relationships

Postby Nordix » Wed Nov 27, 2013 8:41 pm

I posted about an issue related to this thread in the frustrations thread and I was told I should post it here too with the notion that you experts can help somewhat.

I will just quote myself from the original post.

Nordix wrote:I'm having suicidal thoughts at the moment.Because of what happened in the past 2 weeks,including a girl I talked about in my previous post.

She came back playing WoW during summer and randomly started talking with me and the melee officer she has known for years.
The melee officer is a selfcentered emo veryrich greek dude.
The girl is a very cute norwegian,with lots of issues.

The girl already had a boyfriend of 2.5 years by the time this started out,but the relationship wasnt going very well and still isn't to this day,however a lot of paranoia is included on the girls part and she sees things where there are none.

So the greek richdude tried getting things on with her,and stuff went okay for a while until she realized it won't work,because the dude is a selfcentered emo infantile kid basically.

By the time,her and me were talking a lot,hours upon hours every day,for weeks.She is very emotional when she loses a friend and even more so when loses a "crush".So I helped her through this stage.
After all settled,things got fucked up.

She started to have a crush on me,because of all the talking we've been doing.We could talk about anything and it surfaced that our interests are pretty much the same on a lot of things.

You have to realize,I only felt anything for one other girl in my whole life.I resist most.She was spot on,from the get go,but I kept my resist up so it wouldn't get in the way.
Until she had a crush and started to hate that I cant let go of my resistance fully.Even tho it felt wrong ,I did let go of it eventually.It was nice.We planned out a lot of things,still talked 8 hours a day,wasnt just uncontrolled retared e-shit.We were supposed to meet,we talked ,we sent a shitload of pictures (nothing nasty).

But then,something happened,and one day she just told me her bf almost noticed and we need to cut it and can we be just friends again instead,and that she will see it through what happens in her relationship ,it's only fair like this and I'll be the first to know if she is single.

So I tried,I was hurt,she was hurt.
In the background ,the richdude kept doing desparate idiotic whining every day to her,driving her insane.She told me about every single occasion until yesterday and recently the greek dude took to whine to me too about her.

I just ,it was too much, so I told the greek dude,THIS IS WHAT SHE THINKS OF YOU,JUST STOP SPAMMING HER WITH YOUR SHIT ALL DAY EVERYDAY.

and hell broke lose.He immediately used it against her,confronted her.The result was that she left the guild telling me ,she cant be here anymore because of what this guy is doing.
Then the greekdude told her that I was the one telling him this,so she turned on me too.Instant removed me from everywhere ,like boom,like if nothing happened in the past.

I asked the greekdude why did he fuck me up like that. "I was hurt,sorry ,what was i supposed to do."

I was mad,angry,puzzled.

ANd this morning,while the girl isnt in the guild,I see them doing stuff together again with the greekdude.

I'm having a mental breakdown and the only thing I can do is send logs to her irl boyfriend and nuke her whole world,which is equally disgusting to what she and the greek guy are doing at the moment.
She has a ton of issues irl,lives on debt,doesnt own shit and attends university,barely managing.

I Dont know what to do,I certainly cant raid with my guild like this,however if I leave ,since I'M their main tank 100% attendance neverfails dude,I will disband a guild that existed since vanilla and was a friendly but still hardcore raiding guild.

What do,please help!


Additional info is that towards the outside she and her bf show a lot of <3 and such yet I'm being told a lot of mixed things from people who know them.(I'm not asking for these infos)
The greekdude broke things off with her for good -or so I was randomly told by 3 people,one being the greekie and 2 being her friends.

Still having depressed thoughts,because this whole thing with me is extremely rare -like what,I felt love one other time in my life except this girl,that was at the age of 17,and I was hurt VERY bad then too. I think if I really wanted to ,I couldget a girlfriend but it would be dry,I wouldn't feel what I felt for this girl,there would be no spark.

I want a girlfriend and fall in crazy love,but right now I'm just killing myself over this part of my life.
I'm 23 and completely inexperienced /virgin with girls,not even a hug. I really can't change my view on life,love and a girlfriend are the only things I feel I could grip onto my whole life and stay aflot.They are also the only things that give me motivation towards things, everything else feels dry. That is not to say I don't want to be succesful at my job,get a better job,get a uni degree and improve,but it feels dry without a purpose,a goal - and I can't change my goal, nothing diverts my attention from this overarching "life-issue".

I'm writing this because I am depressed to hell.
Please don't send me to a psychiatrist or similar if possible.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Arnock » Wed Nov 27, 2013 10:00 pm

Hey, Nordix.

I can't imagine what kind of pain you might be feeling right now.

But if you're seriously feeling suicidal. You NEED to talk to somebody about it, a close friend, a family member, somebody. If you don't feel comfortable talking to a friend or family member, there are tons of hotlines that you can call and just have somebody to listen. It sounds like you live in the EU somewhere, so I'm not sure as to what kind of resources are available, but the number for here in the States is 1-800-273-8255.

And, secondly, I understand your concern for your guild. And as much as we love Wow, we need to remember that it is a video game. If this situation is driving you towards this place, maybe you do need to take a break and step away from the game for awhile. I'm sure this close-knit group of friends who have been together since Vanilla care more about your life and health than they do about raid progress.

I'm here if you still need to talk.

EDIT: Here's a list of places in Europe.
http://www.iasp.info/resources/Crisis_Centres/Europe/
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Re: Relationships

Postby Aubade » Wed Nov 27, 2013 10:46 pm

I second Arnock. We are a family here at maintankadin, And any of us would be glad to talk with you. And I can speak from experience that those hot lines can help. If you want to talk you can Skype me anytime. Just PM me for the name =] I hope you start feeling better man we're all here for you
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Re: Relationships

Postby Aergis » Wed Nov 27, 2013 11:07 pm

ditto to arnock and aubade, it helps to talk about it rather than keep it bottled up. Stay away from the BF and her though, until you get your own emotions settled a bit or more hell could break loose and all come back on you. The only result of all of that will be worse for you, not better until you are under control.

The best advice I can give is that life doesn't really start until 25 or later. My first ever serious relationship wasn't until I was 25, and that was a total mistake, moved in together, had totally different life goals, got my heart broken, lost all my belongings... After that I completely gave up on girls and just focused on my craft (art school). I didn't find the love of my life until I was 27 and that was completely by accident... I was living on microwave burritos and barely working enough to survive when the most amazing person I've ever met fell into my lap. We were engaged 3 months later.

I'm 35 now and still feel like I'm just getting things started. My youngest child barely started kindergarten and there are so many things to look forward to. There are hiccups along the way, but there are so many more beautiful moments still to come. Don't give up on them when they haven't even started yet.
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Re: Relationships

Postby bldavis » Wed Nov 27, 2013 11:45 pm

Ive been there too..and members of this board have helped me as well, all i had to do is ask for help and someone to talk to

one place that has also helped me if you dont wnat to talk to someone that you kinda know (as in a MTadin) there is also http://blahtherapy.com/
completely anonymous, and there to help

all i can say is parroting what has been said, stay away from them, get your head straight and possibly take a break at least from the situation
play a different game, a different toon, or hell read a good book if you enjoy that

life will get better, no matter how hard it is to imagine it right now.
i say go with your life, and know that when the time is right, love will happen
i know it hurts..it hurts a lot..when this happens, but try to put it out of your mind

if you ever need to just chat, im here with aubade and aegis, just PM me your skype name and/or hit me up on FB (im the jackass in the MTadin group :D)

i do have to agree with aegis in that life doesnt begin til you are 25...but then again i was married from 20 to 24 1/2 so... :lol:
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Re: Relationships

Postby Fivelives » Thu Nov 28, 2013 1:49 am

Nordix wrote:I'm writing this because I am depressed to hell.
Please don't send me to a psychiatrist or similar if possible.


Go see a professional. Seriously, that's my advice to you. Well meaning advice from multiple untrained people that may or may not conflict with each other often does more harm than good. If you're having suicidal ideations, then go to an emergency room - we have procedures in place to get you the help that you need.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Nordix » Thu Nov 28, 2013 7:55 am

I don't want the solution to be to sweep it under the rag or put my head in a hole - diverting my attention from love and girls and such won't make me happy at all,it will make everything dry and empty again.This is what professionals would tell me too I think,why did I fall for a girl already in a relationship,why don't I lower my standards,why don't I immerse myself in something else if this clearly doesn't work with me ,why don't I take these antidepressant pills to force some happiness and cheer.

I want a proper cure , but it seems so out of reach for me,whatever I try to advance towards this goal gets sabotaged.
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