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Re: Relationships

Postby Orthien » Sat Jul 13, 2013 5:08 am

Part of me constantly wonders that, its part paranoia and part low self esteem.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Snake-Aes » Sat Jul 13, 2013 7:32 am

Orthien wrote:Part of me constantly wonders that, its part paranoia and part low self esteem.
Both. Neither. Often one can't even tell which causes which, and when they are problems. Still, if it's getting in the way it bears careful analysis.
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Re: Relationships

Postby bldavis » Sat Jul 13, 2013 11:27 am

it was mostly low self esteem and a lot of depression/feeling wtf
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Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPS
Amirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego.
Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.
Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!
Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.
Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.
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Re: Relationships

Postby bldavis » Sat Jul 13, 2013 9:47 pm

totally fucked up during raid tonight, anyone want to bet on how long it will be before i hear from that friend again?
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Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPS
Amirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego.
Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.
Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!
Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.
Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Fivelives » Sun Jul 14, 2013 10:09 am

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Re: Relationships

Postby Fridmarr » Sun Jul 14, 2013 3:23 pm

bldavis wrote:totally fucked up during raid tonight, anyone want to bet on how long it will be before i hear from that friend again?

You messed up on a raid, and now your "friend" won't talk to you?
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Re: Relationships

Postby bldavis » Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:11 pm

Fridmarr wrote:
bldavis wrote:totally fucked up during raid tonight, anyone want to bet on how long it will be before i hear from that friend again?

You messed up on a raid, and now your "friend" won't talk to you?

friend was in raid with me, and it was a personal arguement

the only thing that during raid has to do with it is that it happened while we were raiding
sorry i didnt make that clearer in my first post...i was a bit distracted and scatterbrained still
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Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPS
Amirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego.
Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.
Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!
Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.
Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Fridmarr » Sun Jul 21, 2013 9:35 am

You guys talking yet?
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Re: Relationships

Postby bldavis » Sun Jul 21, 2013 12:08 pm

yeah..we started talking again monday night

i was just lazy and didnt look up this thread again :)
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Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPS
Amirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego.
Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.
Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!
Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.
Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Orthien » Tue Aug 06, 2013 4:13 pm

I've recently been torn between two inner voices.
The first says that I should man up and move to Aussie, try giving things a good run from the same country. Plus a new job and surroundings would probably have positive effects on my current mental health.
The other says that while she was near perfect, the ways that she weren't we kinda big and her lack of drive to talk to me recently is further proof that I should say f her and move on, actively look for someone new, here.

I don't know if the second is me being logical and realistic or if its my old friends doubt and a 'lack of balls'.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Snake-Aes » Tue Aug 06, 2013 5:49 pm

Bitches be crazy, might as well switch to a new bitch?
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Re: Relationships

Postby Fridmarr » Tue Aug 06, 2013 8:21 pm

Snake-Aes wrote:Bitches be crazy, might as well switch to a new bitch?

/duck...

Orthien, this is really easy for me to say from the cheap seats, but what have you got to lose by moving? Don't go through life kicking yourself in the ass over letting that "perfect" woman get away, while hopelessly comparing any future relationship to what you could have had with her. Of course, if you are getting a vibe that you aren't so perfect for her...that's a different story.
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Re: Relationships

Postby Era » Wed Aug 07, 2013 4:19 am

I was sort of in a similar situation, many years ago, and recently a friend of mine was too. I told him, like Fridmarr says, I would've never forgiven myself if I hadn't given it my best shot. I was successful in regaining my maiden, he was sadly not.

HOWEVER, he's now happily living together with a wonderful girl and says he's actually happy he didn't manage to salvage his previous relationship, as he sees now that it wasn't healthy.

ALSO HOWEVER, while I managed to salvage my relationship - these days I'm wondering if it was worth it. As you say, Orthien, perfect, but some ways that aren't that are kind of big... These things do play out over the course of time.

How about just taking a short trip over there, for a week or two, and see how things go - and say that you may be willing to move there? Just to get a "feel" for things? Alas, I understand that these things cost a lot of money. :(

Whatever you do, I wish you luck!
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Re: Relationships

Postby bldavis » Wed Aug 07, 2013 9:20 am

based on recent developments, and mostly a personal realization...i finally broke off my 4+ year engagement to a woman i havent seen in 3 years, talked to in 2 and seen recent photos of in almost a year....

had to happen at some point esp if i am going to move on
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Brekkie:Tanks are like shitty DPS. And healers are like REALLY distracted DPS
Amirya:Why yes, your penis is longer than his because you hit 30k dps in the first 10 seconds. But guess what? That raid boss has a dick bigger than your ego.
Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.
Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!
Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.
Sagara:You see, you need to *spread* the bun before you insert the hot dog.
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Re: Relationships

Postby katraya » Wed Aug 07, 2013 10:49 am

bldavis wrote:based on recent developments, and mostly a personal realization...i finally broke off my 4+ year engagement to a woman i havent seen in 3 years, talked to in 2 and seen recent photos of in almost a year....

had to happen at some point esp if i am going to move on


Like, on the phone or at all? How would one end a relationship with someone they weren't speaking to?

Either way, it's probably a good choice. That really isn't any kind of a relationship and it sure isn't an engagement.
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