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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Era » Mon Nov 11, 2013 6:05 am

That sounds pretty awful, sorry man. :(

Sounds like your story would go well in the relationship thread! They might have some good advice for you!

As for the raiding bit, do you enjoy World of Warcraft and raiding? Because if you do, then that's a hobby to not just be thrown away. So as Klaud say, your mental sanity is first - find another guild. If you like everyone else in the guild and they can't replace you, then maybe they'll be willing to let the douchecanoe go in order not to lose you. But don't ever feel guilty about leaving a guild you don't feel comfortable with, even if it puts them in a tough spot. We're all here to have fun, and while "doing the right thing" is commendable (AKA staying just so they can raid) - it's honestly not required of you in this situation.

When it comes to the girl, irrelevant point but out of curiosity, can I assume you're also from Norway from your user name "Nordix"? If you're really into this lady and you feel it's all a bit of an emotional miscommunication, how about getting a friend to talk to her and explain how you feel bad about what happened and don't want to lose her?
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Nordix » Mon Nov 11, 2013 8:00 am

I love life and faith.
It truly amuses me how it fucks me up over and over again and shows huge middle fingers witha smile.


After I wrote what I wrote in my previous post,literally 5 minutes later I got news of someone dying in my family.

And no,she is gone for good,I just want her to stop manipulating the greekdude and generally fuck off for good.I'm going to quit raiding for a few days possibly.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Klaudandus » Mon Nov 11, 2013 8:55 am

Really sorry to hear that. I say just step away from the game for a couple of weeks. I'd personally transfer somewhere else just to avoid running into them altogether.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby halabar » Mon Nov 11, 2013 12:46 pm

Nordix...

First of all, hang in there...

Second. you certainly need a few days break, at least. If you can get out of town to see some relatives or friends that might be good. Unplug for a few days, see some movies, meet up with friends.. enjoy some life outside of the game.

THEN come back to the game on your terms.. You are the MT there, so if you still want to be there, take charge, tell the greek to STFU, and be the MT.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby KysenMurrin » Tue Nov 12, 2013 4:44 am

Workplace firewall has blocked Cracked again, and I have run out of things to keep me occupied between actual work tasks.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Sagara » Tue Nov 12, 2013 5:08 am

Want me to post you the articles? ;-)
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Klaudandus » Tue Nov 12, 2013 6:02 pm

Chrome's new omnibox... luckily there's a way to disable it -- i like opening new tabs to my apps as I created a bunch of custom apps/extensions that are pretty much links to the websites i visit the most, including this one.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby bldavis » Tue Nov 12, 2013 6:30 pm

finally got my last sigil on my druid, turn in quest and get sent to kill sha of fear

LFR group all one shot...and forget to loot the dam quest item
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Klaudandus » Wed Nov 13, 2013 10:48 pm

my nerves are flaring up -- thus both my hands are numb
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Shoju » Thu Nov 14, 2013 7:54 am

I think I'm done asking for advice regarding certain things. Asking for advice, only to be given something that isn't advice, but a "hey, start over, and do it this completely different way" is not really helping.

trying to explain why your point is amazing when I point out that your solution is not in the realm of feasibility is not helping either.

I asked for advice about how to progress my build in Path of Exile, and was greeted with options that all involved massive amounts of currency to wipe out passive choices. Massive amounts being:

I could take the currency that would be used to do this change, and trade for an item that I'll probably never upgrade from until they release an expansion with higher level content.

That's just not happening
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Fetzie » Thu Nov 14, 2013 7:31 pm

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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Nordix » Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:01 am

Funeral over:<

She and greekdude are still together.He kicked her alts from the guild for show,andkeeps yappinghow angry and hateful he is towards her,then they play together in LFR,timeless isle,5mans,scenarios,etc.


Oh man. I had to skip raid yesterday cuz of funeral preevening,brother here,etc,ppl still kept qq-ing to me to go in for siegehc only cuz cant kill it without me.
Had to.One shot.

If I Leave,they will suffer,which will make me feel bad in return.
If i Dont do anything,I will suffer bad.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Worldie » Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:23 am

My thoughts in this sort of situation is that if they treat you like shit, they dont deserve your worries.

Leave and let them enjoy the results of their actions. You arent Jesus, you cant make eberyone happy. You should worry of your own happiness/enjoyment first.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Nordix » Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:32 am

its just,that one girl and that one dude,noone else is treating me like shit,but this hurts enough tbh.

(I just noticed how everyone's avatar is a pony.I remember Klaudandus only.THen sagara.now everyone.:D)
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Klaudandus » Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:49 am

Look, be selfish for once. Go ahead and leave if you must -- if needed be, give a brief reason why (can't please with douchecanoe here for personal reasons).

Worldie is right, you aint Jesus, you can't please everyone -- but more importantly, when you're in pain -- you must take care of yourself first before anyone else.

I lost my fiancee, almost committed suicide, lost friends in the process -- I just had to step away from everything, even took a month off of work and just drove around the countryside.

I had to find a situation where I could be comfortable again before I could start healing. If the pain of being in game is more than the joy it brings, step away for a time -- either stop altogether, go play an alt in a diff. server -- something that just avoids the situation that aggravates your well-being.

Also, just as planned, the pony invasion that is -- I can't remember how this started tbh.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Fetzie » Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:55 am

Nordix wrote:Funeral over:<

She and greekdude are still together.He kicked her alts from the guild for show,andkeeps yappinghow angry and hateful he is towards her,then they play together in LFR,timeless isle,5mans,scenarios,etc.


Oh man. I had to skip raid yesterday cuz of funeral preevening,brother here,etc,ppl still kept qq-ing to me to go in for siegehc only cuz cant kill it without me.
Had to.One shot.

If I Leave,they will suffer,which will make me feel bad in return.
If i Dont do anything,I will suffer bad.


You >>>>> Them

Don't let them guilt-trip you into thinking their time in a video game is more important than your physical and mental well-being. It's only a fucking game. When put up against your life, the game loses.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby bldavis » Fri Nov 15, 2013 6:22 pm

Klaudandus wrote:Look, be selfish for once. Go ahead and leave if you must -- if needed be, give a brief reason why (can't please with douchecanoe here for personal reasons).

Worldie is right, you aint Jesus, you can't please everyone -- but more importantly, when you're in pain -- you must take care of yourself first before anyone else.
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Also, just as planned, the pony invasion that is -- I can't remember how this started tbh.

if the game isnt fun with your current situation, why play it in your current situation?

like klaud said, play an alt on a different server, hell maybe even play a different game for your MMO fix


as for the pony avatars..i think it started just after the MLP thread got closed by invis, and reopened by Aubade?
pretty sure most of us just keep them to annoy invis :P
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Fetzie » Fri Nov 15, 2013 7:08 pm

bldavis wrote:as for the pony avatars..i think it started just after the MLP thread got closed by invis, and reopened by Aubade?
pretty sure most of us just keep them to annoy invis :P


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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Worldie » Fri Nov 15, 2013 7:46 pm

So I'm the only one who keeps his avatar cause I like it? :<
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby bldavis » Fri Nov 15, 2013 10:13 pm

Worldie wrote:So I'm the only one who keeps his avatar cause I like it? :<

oh im not saying i dont like my avatar, and RD
but annoying invis is a perk :D
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Flex:I don't make mistakes. I execute carefully planned strategic group wipes.
Levie:(in /g) It's weird, I have a collar and I dont know where I got it from, Worgen are kinky!
Levie:Drunk Lev goes and does what he pleases just to annoy sober Lev.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Sagara » Fri Nov 15, 2013 11:02 pm

bldavis wrote:
Worldie wrote:So I'm the only one who keeps his avatar cause I like it? :<

oh im not saying i dont like my avatar, and RD
but annoying invis is a perk :D


Naah. Just liking mine as it is, thank you very much. :lol:
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby halabar » Sat Nov 16, 2013 9:40 am

Worldie wrote:So I'm the only one who keeps his avatar cause I like it? :<


Speaking of which, found a new one, since my old one disappeared.
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Nordix » Sat Nov 16, 2013 12:10 pm

Really need to find a new guild:\

Dude+Girl are putting up a show to mask whats going on really in the background.

The dude kicked her alts,swore they hate each other ,I hear from my friends they are very cold towards each other,etc,yet they are only online together.They only do stuff together mostly too.Makes no sense.

She tried masking it very hard when she had it going with me too,so I wonder......

Maybe I should leave the guild,and then let the greekdude know about us in the past,it would also be interesting to watch what happens ,when I give skype logs to his irl boyfriend of 2.5 years too....

I wonder....
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Re: Post your Frustrations.

Postby Worldie » Sat Nov 16, 2013 12:36 pm

Find new guild, remove people from friendlist, remove them from your memory, be happy.
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