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Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 9:25 am
by Aubade
Today is 2 weeks of non-smoking for me..

Feels damn good to be able to breathe/Smell again!

Been pretty rough though, looking forward to the next step of my self-improvement plan. WORKING OUT AGAIN! One of my old swim team buddies just moved back to the city, we're gonna start swimming together in the afternoons.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Tue Oct 09, 2012 11:01 am
by Sagara
Today was also echography time.

The little bugger basically gave us the finger by showing us his cute back and not budging despite coughing, shacking, the whole thing.

Such a troll - I love it already ^^

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 11:48 am
by Sagara
Aaaaaaaand we have the picture of our kid. It AGAIN tried to show his back, until he relented after 15 mins of us cheering him to show his side :p

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 2:22 pm
by Nikachelle
Sagara wrote:Aaaaaaaand we have the picture of our kid. It AGAIN tried to show his back, until he relented after 15 mins of us cheering him to show his side :p

LOL @ the usage of the word "it" :D

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 2:36 pm
by Amirya
Huh, and I thought he was using "it" because the last time, his child was mooning them and therefore, he couldn't see if said child was male or female. And this time, "his" came in because they finally got a sideview. "Oh look, honey, a dangling bit!"

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 3:00 pm
by Aubade
YAY DANGLY BITS! WOO GRATS ON Being a mannn. Make sure to make his first computer's homepage http://artofmanliness.com/

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 3:11 pm
by Amirya
Aubade is celebrating the dangly bits today.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:39 pm
by Skye1013
It is National Coming Out day...

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:58 pm
by Aubade
Now you're a man. A MAN MAN MAN. NOW YOU'RE A MAN MAN. A MANLY MANLY MAN.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 10:42 pm
by Sagara
We are sorry to interrupt this enjoyment, but we are still in the dark of the kid's dangly-bits-ness.

It was just me being incoherent in my word choices. And I'd rather have a girl, thank you very much :-p

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 10:44 pm
by bldavis
50g says it is a boy after all and he was just feeling shy!

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Thu Oct 11, 2012 11:35 pm
by Brekkie
bldavis wrote:50g says it is a boy after all and he was just feeling shy!


I was very confused at first because I read that as "50 grams".

Then I realized my error, and the realization that my first instinct was "grams" not "gold" made me very, very happy.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2012 12:12 am
by bldavis
it has been that long since you played?
nice..you finally broke away!

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:14 am
by justme07
Nikachelle wrote:
firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.


could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too :?:

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:14 am
by justme07
Nikachelle wrote:
firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.


could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too :?:

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:27 am
by lythac
justme07 wrote:
Nikachelle wrote:
firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.


could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too :?:


The main problem was -

firstamendme wrote:Trying to decide what to do when your wife of about 5 years messes around behind your back, lies to your face about it, then continues to see him (but not necessarily do anything provable) 4 more times and deny it each time is fun


So I'm going to go with not his fault. As for blaming her on moving in straight away with the guy she cheated with I don't think anyone is. It just confirmed that the divorce and asking her to move out was the right thing to do.

If the woman had decency she would move in with a friend.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:32 am
by firstamendme
Also, I am a graduate student in university housing. I could not have been the one to move out as she is ineligible to have that housing otherwise.

Furthermore, after she moved in with that guy she told me she still wanted to make us work. There were other housing options, albeit difficult ones, but it would appear her choice was clear.

edit: Also, I never stated that the deterioration of the relationship was entirely her fault. I was not fulfilling her emotional needs in addition to other issues we both were having. However, her course of action was not to tell me and work through it, but instead to just find it from someone else, vehemently deny it even after irrefutable proof was obtained, and repeat the action again and again after swearing up and down it would stop. The problems were not her fault alone, but I can say the ending of it was.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2012 1:17 pm
by Fridmarr
justme07 wrote:
Nikachelle wrote:
firstamendme wrote:Papers filed. I had her move out, and she immediately went to this guy's place to stay and started sending him romantic e-cards about cuddling in his bed. Man did I ever make the right call.

Sounds like you did the right thing! Good on you for being strong.


could you blame her if you had her move out? Not sure what the main problem was but feels like might had been your fault too :?:

That's an "interesting" first post on our site...

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Fri Oct 12, 2012 2:56 pm
by bldavis
i was thinking that too >.>

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:50 am
by Sagara
bldavis wrote:i was thinking that too >.>


<- Guilty of the same as charged.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Sat Oct 13, 2012 12:20 pm
by bldavis
Sagara wrote:
bldavis wrote:i was thinking that too >.>


<- Guilty of the same as charged.

guilty of thinking it or guilty of making the post :?

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:00 pm
by Sagara
Of noting the situation. Didn't comment on it, but it did give a strange vibe.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:26 am
by Amirya
I had to do a double take at the post count (which is actually just 1 due to a double post), and then wonder who the fuck is stupid enough to make that sort of comment while simultaneously admitting to not knowing anything about the situation in question and still placing blame.

"I don't really know what's going on, but dude, it's your fault too!"

I mean, seriously? If someone is that incapable of reading back a few pages, then either ask for clarification, or just shut the hell up.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:30 am
by Levantine
Or it's actually her. Silly Ami.

Re: Relationships

PostPosted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:47 am
by Amirya
That's true, I was just hoping for a stupid person and not a stupid female to make me angry for being a female.

I hate females who make the rest of us look stupid and needy and emotionally stunted (if you have to be any of those, just make yourself look that like, ffs)